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Saturday, December 19, 2015

Miss Universe 2015 - Top Picks

Hey Diva,

Have you heard...it's Miss Universe 2015 weekend! The final night competition will air on Sunday December 20, 2015 at 7pm EST live from Las Vegas where a new Miss Universe will be crowned.


Every year, young women from around the globe compete for this prestigious title and as you can imagine, it's quite competitive. The whole production is absolutely breathtaking with elaborate costumes, stunning gowns and a HAUTE swimwear competition.

Oh, and in case you are wondering... no, Donald Trump no longer owns the Miss Universe Organization. Trump sold the pageant back in September of 2015. I'm sure you read all about the controversy surrounding that but in case you missed it, you can catch up here

The preliminary competition happened earlier this week and those scores will determine who makes it to the finals which airs on Sunday! If you  missed it, you can catch it here.


Here are my personal faves, I'll call them Kivas Divas! There were quite a few but these ladies are my top picks based on my criteria of simply being fearless, fly and fabulous with both inner and outer beauty!

Bahamas



Ecuador



France




Haiti



Indonesia



Japan



Myanmar



South Africa



Tanzania



Vietnam



I wonder if any of my top picks will make it to the finals. You better believe I will be watching to find out! Who are your faves? Will you even be watching? What are your thoughts on pageantry?

Until next time.



Smooches,
Cha'Kiva Latrell aka The Spoiled Diva
Follow me on Instagram: @chakivalatrell





Friday, December 18, 2015

Pageantry 101 - Do you really need a pageant coach?


Kristy Wells | Ms. Lone Star Plus America 2015

Hello Queen,

Now that you are a little more familiar with how to get started in pageantry, you should be ready to move onto the next steps. If you missed the last post, read it here ( Pageantry 101 - Getting Started).

Selecting the pageant system that is best for you is an area in which I strongly suggest you research. Much of it is going to be your personal preference but you also want to take a look at the mission and  purpose of the pageant system. Also consider what you can give back to the organization and how you can be of service to incoming delegates.  As a delegate you will invest much time and financial resources into your pageant experience. Therefore, it only makes sense that the experience is worthy of your investment.



There are many questions you can ask yourself when determining the pageant system in which you will start your journey. What values do the pageant system uphold, if any? How do they treat their delegates or better yet, how much do they value their titleholders? Do they actually award the prizes to the winners that they advertise? Also, take a look at past titleholders. Are they women of integrity and purpose? Would you be proud and honored to walk in their footsteps? These are important questions to consider and in this technology heavy day and age, it's pretty easy to find out. So don't get lazy, do your research...and don't be shy, ask questions!



Now that you have decided on a pageant system, what next? Do you really need a pageant coach? The answer will strongly depend on you and what you wish to gain from your pageant experience. Great coaching should not only prepare you to compete on a pageant stage but it should also prepare you to compete on the stage called life! Because let's not forget, there is life after pageantry.




Now let me say this before we go any further. You can spend thousands of dollars on a pageant coach and practice from sun up to sun down for months on end and still not win the title. No amount of coaching will guarantee you a winning title so please do not allow someone to take advantage of you.
What coaching does is prepare you to look and perform your absolute best. Effective coaching will guarantee that you are prepared!


Please understand that effective pageant and image coaching does carry a price tag so be sure you plan for this expense. I have seen individuals advertise their service for well into the thousands of dollars while some offer hourly rates at a more nominal fee. Please don't fall into the trap of thinking that the more expensive, the better because this is not necessarily the case. You also want to consider personality and character because this will determine how well  you and your coach will work together. This is a partnership and it must be comfortable for all parties involved.

Understand that there are many options when it comes to selecting a pageant coach or a coaching method. Whichever way you decide to go, just make sure it is effective and that your results are measurable. One such option is a pageant bootcamp. Bootcamps usually run over the course of a weekend or it can be over the course of a single day. Participants are trained in multiple areas during the bootcamp. My friends at Walking Tall Pageant and Etiquette Consulting are presenting a Queen of Queens pageant bootcamp January 29-31, 2016 in Baton Rouge, LA! This is a great way to jumpstart your pageant preparation and learn from experienced leaders in pageantry.



You may also consider online pageant boards and pageant community websites such as The Pageant Planet founded by my friend Steven Roddy. The Pageant Planet is a one stop shop for all things pageantry. One of the things I enjoy about The Pageant Planet is that they offer daily coaching tips free of charge. In addition, they offer more in depth and cost friendly pageant coaching plans and mock interviews with former titleholders from organizations such as the Miss America and Miss USA pageant systems! How awesome is that... and you don't have to break the bank to receive this great coaching.

Cha'Kiva Latrell | Diary of a Spoiled Diva with Steven Roddy | The Pageant Planet


Finally, you may choose to seek coaching assistance from former titleholders turned pageant coaches! Who better to teach and mold than a woman who has been where you are going? I've been in pageantry since the age of 14. My number one reason for entering my first pageant was to strengthen my interview and communication skills. I knew even at a young age that these areas would be very important to my overall success in life. I had big dreams and I wanted to be prepared to make all of them come true. Sure, I've won a few pageant titles along the way and have made a name for myself in the pageant industry, but it wasn't about winning a pageant title...rather winning in life!

Second Runner-up | Miss Missouri America Coed. (always thank your judges)  The girl standing next to me was Third Runner up and went on to become Miss USA 2005!


Cha'Kiva Latrell | Ms. All World Beauties International | Photo by Afif  Cherif of StudioPrimetime

I have  enjoyed a wonderful career in the fashion industry as a creative and technical fashion designer for Victoria's Secret Stores, Lane Bryant and Reebok International. I've traveled overseas to the factories and was a major part of the production process for these brands. I now manage my own line of clothing and accessories for ladies called... wait for it...Spoiled Diva by CL Felder! Spoiled meaning cherished or favored and Diva meaning a person of great distinction! Spoiled Diva by CL Felder is enjoyed by women all over the globe, I am still in awe of that!



I also enjoy a pretty sweet modeling career and have been blessed to grace the runway for brands and retailers including Ashley Stewart, Macy's, The Curvy Fashionista, BlackBride.com, LiviRae Lingerie and others.



I have now added Pageant and Image Coach to my resume. Mainly because of the numerous requests and inbox messages I receive from ladies wanting my assistance with their pageant journey. Because of my experience and background, I would say I am qualified to do so. My expertise is in the areas of pageant image and style, however I am able to prepare you for every area of competition!

Sade Price | Client and National All American Tourism Beauty 2015
I am accepting new clients for the 2016 pageant season and I am available for a 15 minute complimentary consultation for new clients. Contact me at msawbinternational@yahoo.com to set an appointment.

Remember queen, whatever coaching method or option you choose, understand that the purpose is to prepare you to be the best version of yourself. Apply the skills in every area of your life...on and off stage.

Are you a pageant or image coach and would like to share your service in Diary of a Spoiled Diva? Perhaps you are a titleholder or delegate with an amazing testimony to share.  Please contact me at info@spoileddivaonline.com for details!

Until next time.



Smooches,
Cha'Kiva Latrell aka The Spoiled Diva
Follow me on Instagram: @chakivalatrell









Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Holiday Trends 2015 - Tulle Maxi Skirt

Spoiled Diva by CL Felder 

Hey Diva!
It truly is the most wonderful time of the year …and a fashionable one too! Why not make a bold statement in fashion by Spoiled Diva by CL Felder?



Model | ChaKiva Latrell
I am in love with this tulle maxi skirt with sparkling waistband trim.  It’s pure glamour at its best! Get it here in Black or Crimson.

Tulle Maxi | Spoiled Diva by CL Felder




The black faux fur wrap adds even more luxe. The whole look is perfect for any holiday party or event. Get it here!
Black Faux Fur Wrap | Spoiled Diva by CL Felder


The Spoiled Diva by CL Felder collection is available in sizes from XS – 2XL. Go on, release your inner Diva. Use promo code SD2015 at checkout for a special savings now through the end of the year, www.spoileddivaonline.com.

Until next time.



Smooches,
Cha'Kiva Latrell aka The Spoiled Diva
Follow me on Instagram: @chakivalatrell




Friday, December 4, 2015

Pageantry 101: Getting started



Hey Diva...or shall I say Queen!

So…let me guess, you clicked here because you have an interest in pageantry, right?  Well you have come to the right place because I will shed some light on the industry…from my personal point of view of course! A very popular question is, why pageants? Why do people enter pageants? There are many reasons.

For some it’s a bucket list thing, others want to build confidence or self-esteem. Some want to bring awareness to an issue or cause that is important to them. Then, you have some who want to jumpstart a modeling or acting career and have decided to use pageantry as a launching pad and the list goes on. It’s very individual and all reasons are valid.

My reason for entering my first pageant back when I was about 14 years old was to sharpen my public speaking ability and to pull me out of my shyness.  Yes…I was painfully shy and introverted, but HONEY, not anymore! So I would say…mission accomplished.



Now if you are considering entering a pageant for the first time, let me keep it absolutely 100% real. Pageants are not cheap, PERIOD. Just like any other awesome experience in which you choose to partake, there is a price tag.  The amount depends on the pageant and the level of competition. For example, the cost to compete for a county fair or festival queen title may be less than competing for a state level title. And…competing for a state level title may dent your pockets a little less than competing for a national title. You really have to look at it as an investment in you and your personal development.


It all starts with the entry fee which is simply the amount you invest to participate in the pageant. But what I need you to understand is that there are additional expenses that you want to be prepared to cover such as travel and hotel, after all… you have to get there and have a place to lay your head. Then there is wardrobe, hair and makeup because you want to look great and present your very best self.




And…don’t forget pageant coaching and training. If you are a beginner you might find coaching necessary to get you prepared to perform at your personal best. Even if you are not a beginner and have been competing for a while, it’s not a bad idea to invest in a coach or image professional to update or remix your look, especially if you are having difficulty clinching the title.  I am a pretty amazing pageant image coach, if I may toot my own horn for a moment! References furnished upon request.  If you would like to discuss coaching, please message me at msawbinternational2015 [@] yahoo.com

Now that you understand the investment involved in pageantry, you may be wondering how in the world you can afford it all. I say, where there is a will, there is a way. Many ladies seek the assistance of sponsors to cover pageant expenses. What/who are sponsors you ask? Well… sponsors are family, friends or even businesses you and your family patronize that support you with the financial aspect of your pageant. This would include anything from entry fees, advertising fees, travel expenses to wardrobe and makeup cost. There are ways to cover your expenses and with proper planning, you can certainly find organizations and businesses willing to support you in your pageantry journey. Just ask!


I honestly believe pageants can be enriching and an amazing experience. You just need to find the right one for you!  Do some research...and I don't mean just perusing the pageants website. I mean dig deeper, reach out to current and former delegates to get feedback. Talk to former and current title holders. Checkout reviews of the pageant system on other websites to get a feel for the real deal.  Also, be aware of scams and scammers. I wish this were not a reality but it is so protect yourself.  I will talk more on that topic at a later date.  In the meantime, please comment. Share your pageant experience and any advice you might have for pageant newbies. If you are a newbie, please ask your questions here and I will be sure to get you an answer.   




Until next time.



Smooches,
Cha'Kiva Latrell aka The Spoiled Diva
Follow me on Instagram: @chakivalatrell

Friday, November 6, 2015

Avenue #Avebeyou Top 10 Photo Contest


Cha'Kiva Latrell - Avenue Photo Contest


Hey Diva,
So...I'm sure you have heard about the Avenue "selfie" photo contest. Just to recap, the Avenue announced a photo contest where they asked ladies to submit their most stylish looks wearing pieces from the Avenue and using the hashtag #avebeyou.

The prizes include a $500 gift card from Avenue, a trip to New York to attend an Avenue photo shoot and become an Avenue model for a day with accommodations in a grand hotel and a NYC night out on the town and the grand prize...drum-roll please...an all-inclusive 5 day/4 night vacation for two – including airfare and transportation! PLUS the grand prize winner will be awarded a 3 day/2 night trip with 1 guest to New York City to attend an Avenue photo shoot and become an Avenue model for a day with accommodations in a grand hotel and a NYC night out on the town!


The idea of a photo shoot for the brand sounds absolutely amazing and I just could not pass on this opportunity of a lifetime! So, I threw my hat into the ring with a selfie I took on my birthday this past summer in a sexy black sequin skirt from Avenue!



 

Each week for three weeks, the submission with the highest number of votes from the public was selected as the winner of a $100.00 Avenue gift card.


 
I was blessed and honored to be the week one winner, who would have guessed that a photo I took in my bathroom mirror for fun back in the summer would garner me this awesome reward!

My win, secured me a place in the top ten and I can't begin to tell you how excited I am. Voting on the top ten will continue until Sunday November 8, 2015. From there, the top 5 submissions with the highest number of votes will be named the final five.



From there, its up to a judges panel consisting of staff and models from Avenue to select the three winners. The excitement is definitely building, and three ladies will certainly have a life changing experience. I do pray one of them will be me!

I would love your support, please click here to cast your vote for me. There is no registration or sign-up. Just click and vote!



Read all of the details about the Avenue contest and rules here.

Until next time.



Smooches,
Cha'Kiva Latrell aka The Spoiled Diva
Follow me on Instagram: @chakivalatrell